You need to be friends with the Aquarius man to be able to love him. Being friends with him will allow you to appreciate his characteristics and then you can decide whether you can be able to adjust to his independent and partying nature. After you have known him, you can improve your relationship with him. He may look like he is not up for a long-term commitment but the truth is that he wants one. He is not afraid of a relationship.  The problem is that he does not want the relationship to coerce him to anything, especially any form of losing control.

Aquarians normally have many friends because of their serving nature. To be a good friend to an Aquarian you will have to think like him. You will begin to learn about him if you think logically instead of emotionally. The main thing is to allow him to go his way wherever he desires. If you are able to do this, he will surely return but do not compel him to remain. He requires pure freedom. You will need to convince the Aquarian that you are also their type of person. This way they will be able to open up to you. If in any case they feel like they are being trapped, they will ignore you.

To obtain a long-term relationship with the Aquarius male then do not expect them to bring you gifts or have a romantic nature. Do not expect them to bring you flowers. The point is that they care for you but will not know how to express it to you. This is a part of his nature and it is not deliberate. You need to have patience with the Aquarius male. If you get to understand him then you will have a wonderful relationship together.